Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies
And Other Rituals to Fix Your Life, from Someone Who's Been There
What's it about
Feeling like a hot mess who's just pretending to have it all together? Discover how to stop self-sabotaging and finally become the secure, confident person you’ve always wanted to be. This is your guide to reparenting yourself and transforming your life from the inside out. You'll learn the simple, daily rituals that took author Tara Schuster from anxious and self-loathing to a thriving adult who truly loves herself. Uncover practical steps for creating healthy boundaries, reframing negative thoughts, and building a life filled with genuine self-care, one small, loving action at a time.
Meet the author
Tara Schuster is an accomplished author, playwright, and entertainment executive who served as Vice President at Comedy Central, where she was an executive producer on the Emmy and Peabody Award-winning Key & Peele. Overwhelmed by anxiety and believing she was a "hot mess," she developed the powerful self-care rituals she shares in her work. Schuster’s journey from self-loathing to self-love provides the candid, relatable, and hard-won wisdom that has inspired countless readers to re-parent themselves and build a life they truly want.

What's it about
Feeling like a hot mess who's just pretending to have it all together? Discover how to stop self-sabotaging and finally become the secure, confident person you’ve always wanted to be. This is your guide to reparenting yourself and transforming your life from the inside out. You'll learn the simple, daily rituals that took author Tara Schuster from anxious and self-loathing to a thriving adult who truly loves herself. Uncover practical steps for creating healthy boundaries, reframing negative thoughts, and building a life filled with genuine self-care, one small, loving action at a time.
Meet the author
Tara Schuster is an accomplished author, playwright, and entertainment executive who served as Vice President at Comedy Central, where she was an executive producer on the Emmy and Peabody Award-winning Key & Peele. Overwhelmed by anxiety and believing she was a "hot mess," she developed the powerful self-care rituals she shares in her work. Schuster’s journey from self-loathing to self-love provides the candid, relatable, and hard-won wisdom that has inspired countless readers to re-parent themselves and build a life they truly want.
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