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Come As You Are

Revised and Updated: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life

14 minEmily Nagoski Ph.D., Nicholas Boulton

What's it about

Tired of feeling like your sex life isn't "normal" or that something is wrong with you? Discover the groundbreaking science that proves stress, mood, and trust are just as important as what's happening below the belt. This summary will transform how you see your own sexuality. You'll learn why a one-size-fits-all approach to sex is a myth and how your brain is your most important sexual organ. Uncover the dual control model of arousal, understand your unique sexual personality, and gain practical tools to boost confidence and create more joyful, fulfilling sexual experiences.

Meet the author

Emily Nagoski, Ph.D., is the award-winning author of the New York Times bestseller Come As You Are and one of the world’s leading experts on women’s sexual wellbeing. Her twenty years as a sex educator, first at the University of Delaware and then as director of wellness education at Smith College, inspired her to write the book she wished she’d had. Narrator Nicholas Boulton is an acclaimed actor whose extensive work on stage, screen, and in audiobooks brings Nagoski’s science to life.

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What's it about

Tired of feeling like your sex life isn't "normal" or that something is wrong with you? Discover the groundbreaking science that proves stress, mood, and trust are just as important as what's happening below the belt. This summary will transform how you see your own sexuality. You'll learn why a one-size-fits-all approach to sex is a myth and how your brain is your most important sexual organ. Uncover the dual control model of arousal, understand your unique sexual personality, and gain practical tools to boost confidence and create more joyful, fulfilling sexual experiences.

Meet the author

Emily Nagoski, Ph.D., is the award-winning author of the New York Times bestseller Come As You Are and one of the world’s leading experts on women’s sexual wellbeing. Her twenty years as a sex educator, first at the University of Delaware and then as director of wellness education at Smith College, inspired her to write the book she wished she’d had. Narrator Nicholas Boulton is an acclaimed actor whose extensive work on stage, screen, and in audiobooks brings Nagoski’s science to life.

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