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Wired for Love

How Understanding Your Partner's Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship

17 minStan Tatkin PsyD MFT

What's it about

Tired of the same old fights derailing your relationship? What if you could understand the hidden wiring of your partner's brain to stop arguments before they even start? Discover how to build a lasting, secure connection by learning the neuroscience behind love, conflict, and attachment. This summary of Wired for Love reveals how to create a "couple bubble" that protects your relationship from outside stress. You'll learn to identify your and your partner's attachment styles—whether you're an anchor, an island, or a wave—and use simple, brain-based techniques to soothe conflict, increase intimacy, and become masters of connection.

Meet the author

Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, is a leading relationship expert and the founder of the PACT Institute, a renowned training program for therapists worldwide. His expertise stems from over three decades as a clinician and researcher in developmental neuroscience, attachment theory, and arousal regulation. This unique fusion of disciplines allowed him to create the Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy PACT and provide the powerful, brain-based insights found in Wired for Love, helping couples build secure and lasting partnerships.

Wired for Love book cover