Mint to Be
What's it about
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Meet the author
Katie Cicatelli-Kuc is a professor of philosophy and the founding director of the Center for the Study of The Good at Marist College. Her extensive research into the nature of well-being and life satisfaction inspired her to explore how everyday choices impact our happiness. Through her work, she translates complex philosophical ideas about living a good life into practical, actionable advice that anyone can use to cultivate more joy, purpose, and personal fulfillment.
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The Script
The local craft fair is a world of its own. In one booth, a potter sells two kinds of mugs, both thrown from the same batch of clay. The first are her ‘show’ mugs: perfectly symmetrical, glazed in a flawless, uniform color, and stacked in neat, untouchable pyramids. They are beautiful, but they feel like artifacts in a museum. Then there are the ‘life’ mugs. One has a thumbprint lovingly pressed into its side, another a slightly off-kilter handle, a third a drip of glaze that ran wild in the kiln, creating a unique, accidental starburst. These are the mugs people pick up. They test the weight, run a finger over the imperfections, and imagine the warmth of their morning coffee held within. The show mugs represent an ideal, a flawless story we tell ourselves we want. But the life mugs are the ones we actually choose, because their imperfections are what make them feel like ours.
We often treat our own lives like those show mugs, striving for a perfect, unblemished narrative. We want the flawless career, the storybook romance, the life without any accidental drips or off-kilter handles. We chase the ‘mint condition’ version of ourselves, believing that any flaw, any detour, any moment of messy humanity devalues the whole. This constant pressure to be perfect can be exhausting, leaving us feeling like we’re perpetually falling short of an impossible standard. What if the most valuable parts of our lives aren't the perfect moments, but the beautifully imperfect ones that give our story its unique character and strength?
This very tension is what compelled writer and editor Katie Cicatelli-Kuc to explore her own story. After a series of personal and professional setbacks left her feeling far from ‘mint condition,’ she began to question the cultural obsession with flawlessness. Instead of trying to buff out the scratches on her own life story, she started to examine them, finding unexpected humor, resilience, and wisdom in the detours and imperfections. Drawing on her experience navigating the messy realities of modern womanhood, Cicatelli-Kuc wrote "Mint to Be" as a witty and heartfelt celebration of the beautifully flawed, lived-in stories that make us who we are.
Module 1: The Fracture of Unspoken Truths
The story of Emma and Aiden is built on a decade of shared history. Their friendship is a comfortable rhythm of inside jokes and peppermint hot chocolates. But underneath this comfortable surface, a fault line is forming. It’s the tension between personal ambition and the stability of their relationship. This module explores how unspoken feelings and diverging dreams can quietly break a bond that once felt unbreakable.
The central conflict ignites when Emma reveals her dream to attend Easton Academy, a boarding school in New York City. For her, it’s the first step toward a bigger life. For Aiden, it’s a threat. This brings us to a crucial insight: Unspoken feelings fester into resentment when confronted with change. Aiden secretly loves Emma. Her departure feels like a personal loss he can’t articulate. So instead of sharing his fears, he questions her ambition. He asks why she’s in such a rush, wishing they could just enjoy the time they have left. His silence about his true feelings creates a wound. Emma misinterprets his hesitation as a lack of support, not a fear of losing her.
This leads to a painful, self-imposed distance. Six months later, Emma is on a train back home, but the emotional landscape has completely changed. Their texts have dwindled to emojis and one-word replies. She never even said a proper goodbye. And here’s the thing: Avoidance becomes a strategy to manage the pain of a changing relationship. Emma is bringing her new boyfriend, Sam, home for the holidays. She hasn't told Aiden. This is an act of avoidance. She’s trying to keep her new life separate from her old one because confronting the collision is too painful. She scrolls through old texts, feeling a pang of homesickness, but she can’t bring herself to bridge the gap she helped create.
Meanwhile, Aiden learns about Sam from Emma's parents. The news hits him with the force of a physical blow. It confirms his worst fears. The communication breakdown is now complete. This shows us that without honest communication, assumptions fill the void and harden into facts. Aiden assumes Emma has moved on and forgotten him. He interprets her new life as a rejection of their shared past. The foundation of their friendship, once built on knowing everything about each other, is now cracked by everything left unsaid.
Module 2: The Collision of Worlds
When Emma returns to her small town of Briar Glen, she doesn’t just bring luggage. She brings a new identity and a new boyfriend, Sam, who represents her new life in the city. This return home is a collision of her past and present, forcing her to see her home, her family, and her oldest friendship through a new, uncomfortable lens. This is where we see how difficult it is to integrate the person you’ve become with the person you once were.
The moment Emma steps back into her childhood home, the conflict becomes clear. She’s moved by the familiar sight of Christmas decorations but also feels a pang of guilt for not being there to help. This feeling intensifies when her new boyfriend, Sam, enters the picture. This brings us to a core idea: Bringing an outsider into a familiar world exposes hidden insecurities. Sam is polite and tries to fit in, but he is fundamentally different. He comes from a sleek, tidy New York apartment; Emma’s home is filled with loving, chaotic clutter. Emma finds herself embarrassed by her family’s playful teasing and casual mess, things she never noticed before. She sees her life through his eyes and feels a wave of self-consciousness about her "origin story."
This clash of worlds escalates in the town’s social spaces. At Cup o' Jo, the beloved local coffee shop, Sam makes a series of small but significant missteps. He orders for Emma, a gesture that feels "all kinds of wrong" because it disrupts her personal ritual in a place filled with her memories. He even buys coffee from a corporate chain across the street, a move that the locals see as an affront. These actions highlight a critical point: Small cultural disconnects can reveal deep-seated differences in values. Sam is oblivious, not malicious. He doesn’t understand the unspoken rules of this tight-knit community. His comment that the handmade wooden crafts at the market are "splinter city" is seen as an insult to local craftsmanship. His admission that he’s "not an animal guy" is met with suspicion by Emma’s family and Aiden’s grandfather, for whom pets are family.
Then comes the inevitable reunion with Aiden. It’s cold and awkward. The encounter happens at Cup o' Jo, the very heart of their shared history. But now, it’s a battleground. Aiden is hurt and sarcastic. Emma is avoidant. And Sam is the unwelcome third party. Here’s the key takeaway: Past relationships cast long shadows over present realities. Every corner of the coffee shop holds an "Aiden-shaped memory" for Emma, making it impossible for her to be fully present with Sam. For Aiden, seeing Sam with Emma in their spot feels like a violation. When Emma introduces Aiden as a "childhood friend," the label feels like a demotion, a dismissal of their deep bond. The unresolved history between them poisons the present, making any chance of a simple, happy reunion impossible.