Outdated

Tired of swiping, ghosting, and dead-end dates? If you're ready to break the cycle of modern dating and find a love that actually lasts, this guide is for you. Learn how to ditch the frustrating games and build a relationship with purpose, starting right now. You'll discover the four common dating pitfalls to avoid and the single most important quality to look for in a partner. This summary offers a clear, counter-cultural roadmap to finding and keeping a spouse, whether you're single, dating, or engaged and seeking a stronger foundation.

Jonathan "JP" Pokluda is the lead pastor of Harris Creek Baptist Church and a former leader of The Porch, where he ministered to thousands of young adults weekly. This experience, alongside co-author Kevin McConaghy, gave them a unique, front-row seat to the challenges and heartbreaks of modern dating. Their insights aren't theoretical; they are forged from years of walking with young adults through the complexities of finding lasting, God-honoring love, offering biblical wisdom for a generation navigating a new dating landscape.